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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert, writes… …

Looking for and finding love doesn’t have to be the painful assignment most people think it is.
Admitedly, it can feel that way, I can assure you that you can find your ideal partner for you if you follow these steps.
The values and attributes you want in your ideal mate will determine what approach you take to find him or her.
Whether you want ease without commitment or deep intimacy, knowing what you want is the first step.
There are three crucial points to successful partnership chemistry. Attraction or chemistry is not
about looking good, saying all the right things, or making the right moves.
I’m referring to who you are that comes from the inside that will determine how attractive you are and the kind of vibe you give off.
There is a universal principle known as the Law of Attraction which states like attracts like.
When you get clear on exactly what you want, exude the essence of what it feels like to already have it, and let go of the details on when it will happen, you’ve removed the resistance to having the relationship you deeply desire and deserve.

Here’s further explanation of what I mean.

1. Know what you want.
The universe is made up of energy which is moldable. Physics has proven that. We are part of this universe and our thoughts are part of the creative energy that molds the energy. For example, everything you see was once at first a thought. Knowing what you want helps you clarify your intentions and
makes a very clear statement for yourself and to the universe. Many of us get wishy washy here and end up having relationships and experiences we don’t think we’d necessary chose. But choose we did. We just chose from a default setting that goes something like… “well, I’m not sure, whatever, maybe,
maybe not.” There’s not much deliberate intent in these kinds of feelings or thoughts. You can be clear about what you want and get it. Go for it and make a comprehensive list of what you want.

2. How will it feel when you have what you want?
To charge up your attraction power, get into the feeling state (the essence) of what it will feel like when. When she calls you those lovely pet names, when he calls to ask where you’d like to go to dinner tonight. The smiles, the laughter, the inside jokes you share. Imagine what it will be like when …

3. Let go of how and when love will show up.
Lastly, become an allower and go with the flow. When you let go and go with the flow, you’ve let go of resistance to having your love show up. Feeling good, expectant and happy releases resistance. From that place you’ll be inspired to actions that put you in the places, be surrounded by circumstances, synchronicities and small miracles that orchestrate the
perfect meeting. That’s how it happened for me and that’s what I teach my clients to do for themselves.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor, writes… Contrary to widely held love advice that’s out there on the internet, asking your date a series of interview questions is one way for certain to make a bad first impression and send her packing.

Seriously, put yourself in someone else’s shoes, asking you questions that you’d expect to hear on a job interview. Would that make you feel comfortable? I don’t think so. The relationship advice you get from a woman’s point of view, may not work from a man’s perspective. From a man’s point of view, a real woman is a woman who can communicate about what she wants and how she feels.

It’s more acceptable these days for a real man to open his heart and communicate openly from his heart. Open communication is a valuable trait and a turn on for most women.

Whether you’re looking for a casual relationship or someone to spend the rest of your life with, you must start from square one. For the best tips and Relationship Advice for Men the most important thing to know is what you want.

1. Knowing What You Want

What’s important to you? Get clear about what those qualities are and you’ll have an easier time knowing when you meet him. Is he funny, does he think you’re funny? Is it important to you that he likes sports? Is she interesting, well-travelled? What about sports, hobbies, politics, or food?

When you know what you want you can start sampling from what you encounter in the world or in the relationships of your friends. What do you admire about the friends who have successful relationships? What are the elements that turn you off in other peoples’ relationships? When you’re not afraid to get clear and be straight about what you want, trust me, you’ll be much more able to know when he’s] the right one.

2. Be Flexible

When you’re flexible about how, when or who shows up, you’d be surprised on how much easier it is to attract the right one. I’m not suggesting that you compromise or settle for less. I’m proposing that you stay curious about ‘what if he’s even better than I can imagine?’ Be open to getting more than you asked for. That’s what happened for me. I got clear about what I wanted and I stopped listening to everyone else about how hard it was to meet eligible partners.

3. Let Go of the HOW

When you let go of the “way it’s supposed to happen” you allow the universe to works its magic. Though that may sound Woo-Woo, the truth is when you have a firm opinion about “HOW it supposed to be,” you limit yourself. You’re also in a resistant mode, which hinders your magnetic attraction.

4. “BE” the Person You’d Like to Meet

That’s right. You got clear on the qualities and values you want in your lover. Now the question is, “are you anything like the person you’d like to meet”? I hope so. If not, you know what you have to do. Start shifting your values and qualities. Then you’ll be a much greater match for your sweetie.

When you’re in the seeking mode, it’s much easier to find them when you know what you want. So get clear, go with the flow and be the kind of person you want to meet.