Relationship Advice And Help

So you are anxious to hear from your ex. You have called several times this week
and still, he or she has not called back. The whole waiting game is driving you
up the wall. How can you make your ex return your call? Are there some secret
Strategies we can use? Perhaps, some magic words that will cast a spell on this
person? The answer is YES. There are Two Amazing words that will work like magic.
Sounds a Little crazy? Not necessarily. As these words have worked for many other couples
then surely, yours will not be any different.

There are thousands of people breaking up everyday and the first thing they
want to do is to get back together. They try so hard only to be disappointed
in the end. What happened? Where did they go wrong? Why won’t your ex call
you back?

Well, there are various reasons. We cannot control the reasons but what we
can do is to keep it from taking place. We are going to learn how we can
take advantage of some magic words to make sure that he or she will return
your call.

What not to say to your ex
Lots can go wrong in a simple phone call,text,email
or voicemail. The things you should not say to your ex when calling them
would fall in two categories.

Pleading

Just makes you sound desperate. If you use words and tone that are
really indicative of how badly you need this person back, it will all the more
make things worse. Never say something like “John, please, please, PLEASE call
me. I have been calling you three times today. I NEED to talk to you.” This
will never ever work for you!

Using the “emergency” technique

Usually, if the first one does not work, we often resort to a second tactic
using “emergency” scripts such as “Cindy, I’m calling because of an emergency.
PLEASE call me ASAP!” You think this will work? I’m sorry but that way just leads to disaster.

Here is how you can effectively convince your ex to return your call: understand
how the mind works! Human beings are governed by two powerful forces: Curiosity and Self Interest. When you use the two of them at the same time, you can have anything you want and getting your ex to call you is one of them!

To site an example, let’s say you call your ex, John. You speak in a friendly
and carefree tone saying:

“Hello, John. It’s Cindy. I just wanted to speak to you just to tell you how much I appreciate what
you did and I wanted to thank you in person. get back to me.”

This short script is going to spark curiosity and is something that is simply
so hard to resist. You will keep John wondering what he did that made you
appreciate him. It will make him feel good which takes care of his self-interest
and at the same time, he will become very curious.

Now when you use this strategy, you have to be aware of certain precautions. You do not want this plan to boomerang on you. Stop think before you call you must call with a good reason for appreciating your ex. It could be something small, really. As long as it is believable then you are safe. Next, come up with an
action plan. Make plan A, B, and C if you have to. Make sure everything has
been checked so that you will keep yourself from doing further damage to this
already “broken” relationship. Create a great plan that will work well for you
before, during and after you make the call!

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