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Law Of Attraction Relationships: Meaningful Dating – Playing With Passion And Purpose Part II

Thursday, May 20th, 2010

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …

1. Being afraid of failure is a very human emotion

Perhaps in the past a relationship or many haven’t worked out. Welcome to the club. That happens to every person on the planet. It does not mean anything concerning who you are. It is simply something that occurred in the past. You would grant any number of your peers the space to move on following a situation that did not work out? Certainly you would. When you consider that failure is simply making an area for a new experience. Remember that dating (and life) is a game. Play it and be present. Go into it with the first priority to have fun and find something different, not to prove how great you are or prove how broken you are. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and sky-rocket your positive vibration!

Try on innocence and play full out. Simply try it and see how different it feels. Nobody is out to steal something from you that you’re not going to give. Certainly, there can be various things to expect from your relationship. There’s nothing wrong with having different expectations. Simple and effective communicative ability can should take care of that. Believe me, you are going to have varying things you’ll expect and levels of compatibility. If you don’t, you’d get terribly bored of the person in a very small period of time. Should you decide that you only wanted one play date, that’s completely fine too. There’s no inherent rejection involved. It’s simply a choice on how you or he/she prefers to use their time. It’s just a choice, instead of a rejection. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it’s not hard to understand.

2. Do you have a case of the not-enoughers?

Your internal monologue is “I’m not thin enough”, “I’m not as wealthy as I want to be”; you know that noise. You’re simply not enough. Remember that at the core, everyone has that recurring internal monologue, too. You are not the only one here.

Do your hardest to stay present and retaining your purpose in your game. Meaning, the purpose is to have fun. Imagine it as an exploration. “What is something novel I can gather about myself or my date?” Send the energy just before your date. That means to actively declare what you want for that date. For example, “I intend to have fun and laugh on this date. I’m going to allow this to be simple and light.” Now you’ve just paved an energetic pathway for your date. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

Playing with passion and purpose is an easy way to grow your self in the present. It is a very different way to think about dating. Use passion by being all-out and open with the focus on having fun. Practice purpose by deliberately considering and evaluating what you’re doing. The bottom line is HAVE FUN.

The energy of FUN is one of the highest around. Let it happen. Laugh and have fun. You will turn into a magnet for fun people and if you keep practicing it, eventually you will manifest your perfect fun mate.

It doesn’t matter if you’re 25 or 75 in the dating game – just like your existence. If approached as a fun game, where winning and losing is not relevant, life goes much more smoothly for everyone.


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Creating Real Love on Valentine’s Day

Saturday, March 27th, 2010

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …

Valentine’s Day draws out the romantic in many of us. At the very least, it’s a day that we’d LIKE to have the romantic drawn out in us. In a relationship or not, when Valentine’s Day comes to mind do you not remember the absurd little cupid cards we sent around to fellow children in school or the cards we created in class for our parents?

Several memories and reminders we have about Valentine’s Day and what it means to be in a relationship or not can make us experience positive or negative emotions, depending on what memories are invoked. Unfortunately, the majority of how we feel, regardless of what the status of our relationship is is placed upon us by the conditioned thinking that’s ‘out there’ in the mass consciousness.

Don’t pay attention to what they’re saying. Don’t pay attention if it does not uplift and make you feel better about yourself. You are excellent just the way you are.

If you want a relationship and you are not in one, great! You have the opportunity to get clear on exactly what you want. Now you are in a great area to start to create a relationship from a new starting point.

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Valentine’s Day, whether you’re in a relationship or not, can be a day where you celebrate the romance that’s going to arrive! But, you must be proactive in this. You’re the one who gets the first say and has the creative control over what you want in your relationship. A Relationship Coach can help you get clear on what you want and help you achieve the relationship of a lifetime!

Here’s where a lot of us sleep on the job. We are waiting for the circumstances to change out there. We are waiting for him to take charge. We are hoping that if we give him enough hints, he will take one and swing into action. WRONG. Don’t do that. That is letting yourself be at the receiving end, instead of the cause of your life. You get say. The only thing you have to do is make a gentle request, to your current spouse or lover or to the Universe. Then, you will have to get out of the way. You need to forget the how, the what, and the when of what you desire. Attaching yourself to the outcome is basically resisting what you desire. You can’t say “Come in” with a hand keeping the door closed and expect it to enter. Maybe that’s easier said than done. But that is why life coaching exists for those of us who need to gain clarity of why we are failing to get what we desire and then assist us in aligning with what we do so it can manifest. If you want to get a head-start on attracting the love of your dreams, you can get great coaching from a Law of Attraction Coach. Get your free consultation today!

It basically boils down to three steps. Ask, Align, and Allow. Simple, right? Not necessarily easy. Ask yourself “What would be available to me in a loving, aligned, co-creative partnership?” “What would I be capable of in my life if I was in a mutual, loving relationship”? Think Big! Now begin to play in the energy of how your life would appear and feel like if you were experiencing that now. Use your imagination – remember what you did so effortlessly as a child?

I am continuously deeply moved when I think of all of the amazing miracles I have created by way of manifesting my amazing husband. A little over four years ago, I was one of the people who had more unsettling closings to relationships than I would care to admit. Then, I really buckled down with Law of Attraction. I did the play/work. I dropped my barriers to love, got aligned and rapidly attracted the love of my life.

This Valentine’s Day, this year, I hope you are as blessed as I am in your relationship. I know you deserve it. By the way, a relationship is continuous co-creation, as is life. I wish you a happy life, true love and perfect creation.

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How I Found My Perfect Partner on My Spa Trip

Saturday, August 22nd, 2009

My age is now 64 and I have not found someone to be with in almost 5 decades. I dont know whats wrong with me.

The reason for feeling so lonely is because most of my friends that I had are now married with kids, most of them even have grandkids and when I think about what I have got its nothing really. Ok I may have nice things such as a house, but I have wasted to much time getting it that I have noone to share it with.

One of my close friends told me to take a break, I havent had a real break for years. I went online and looked at various India spa holidays. One caught my eye and I decided to take the trip, after all it was something that I never experienced before.

When I arrived it looked like paradise, everyone just looked so healthy and glowing. I think it was the second or third day into the trip when I decided to visit the sauna, in there was someone that caught my eye straight away, she was absolutely stunning. Cutting a long story short, we got chatting and shared the rest of the holiday together. When we returned home we decided to tie the knot, my family thought it was to early, but I was just getting too old to wait. A few years down the line and we are still very much happily married. Going to spa hotels is something I now regularly do as a couple.

Don’t Overcomplicate Your Relationship

Saturday, August 22nd, 2009

There is a lot of information out there about how to make relationships work. There are a good number of different theories and approaches, much of which are unfortunately conflicting. The problem with most of the information available is that it does not apply to everyone and people need different solutions to their individual problems. Here we take a look at the core-basics, the things that nearly all relationships need to have in place if they are to work.Sort these foundation issues out first and you’ll have a life to work on the rest.

Trust. Do not underestimate the disruptive power of having distrust. You will always be worrying when they are away at conference venues etc, about what they are doing and who with? There is nothing more destructive to a relationship than such insecurities, which often do the exactly opposite to what you want and push the other person away. It can be difficult to trust a partner if you have had previous bad experiences, but ask yourself this, if the worst happens and someone is unfaithful to you, were they really the right person?

Communication. Every couple has issues and country to popular belief, these are not what split people up, it’s actually the inability to deal with them and reach an understanding.If you don’t have the ability to share your inner feelings with your other half then your relationship is already dramatically weakened. Talking calmly and sensibly to each other is the best way to really get to understand problems and how the other person feels about them. If you find this too difficult then it often helps to have someone else in the room to act a diplomat and keep the conversion from breaking down.

Love . Without love, being with someone and sharing so much with them can be a real strain.People drift apart without love as it is the relationship fabric that bonds people together through tough times. It is possible to fall back in love with someone and you don’t need to renew you vows at luxurious wedding venues to do so. Being attracted to your partner is important though, either for their looks, their personality, or ideally both.

For the ultimate getaway for two, why not try an amazing stay in a great castle hotel, where you’ll be in the perfect surroundings to make up

Tips To Save Your Relationship After Cheating

Sunday, August 16th, 2009

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Cheating of one or both partners can strongly affect your martial relationship. An extra-marital affair is a heart-breaking and embarrassing situation for both the partners and it indicates the failure of companionship and married life. The most important base of any marriage is trust and faith which may get weakened due to an extra-marital affair.

It may give rise to the marital problems like conflicts and bitterness which then crosses the limits and can result in a separation. However, separation is a very painful and stressful situation for both the partners; you should try to save your relationship after cheating.

It’s very painful and difficult for you if you discover that your partner is cheating you. But, don’t get frustrated or panic at such situations, remain calm and try to control the situation. Think about how you can handle this situation and find out the ways to save your relationship after cheating.

It is quite obvious that you get angry with your partner, but it’s better to stay calm and try to know why your partner is cheating you. In most cases, the reason of cheating is not that the partner who is cheating has no emotional feelings, but it may be due to his/her physical needs. In such situations, you could grab the attention of your partner with your intense love.

Whatever may be the reason of cheating, ‘forgive and forget’ is an important key factor to save your relationship after cheating. When you realize that you have been cheated by your partner, talk to him/her about it openly and find out if he/she is willing to save the marriage and try to understand your partner’s approach about it. Express your love for your partner and make him/her realize how much you need him/her. If you get a positive response from your partner, then try to forgive him/her and say ‘Let’s make a new start’.

If you are able to develope a deep love for each other, then this problem can easily be solved. The important step you should take to save your relationship after cheating is to find out your drawbacks and mistakes. Take the effort to improve your personality and behavior and avoid doing the things by which your partner gets hurt.

Plan to spend the vacation with your partner and go for outings. Give time for each other, improve the communication between you, try to find out the differences between you and overcome them.

If you are the one who is cheating, then you should equally contribute and take efforts to save your marriage. You should promise to end your affair and be loyal with your partner. Your body language is significant when you are saying ‘sorry’ to your partner.

If your partner is willing to forgive you and forget the whole situation, you should respond him/her in a positive way. You should also express your deep love for your partner and make him/her know how much you need your partner and how incomplete you are without him/her. This will definitely work and you will be able to reignite love in your partner’s mind.

When both of you take the efforts to save your relationship after cheating, you will be successful to improve your relationship and live happily together.

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