There are four causes why women split up with men. Even with just one of these problems in the relationship, a split will eventually happen. We will go over the four occasions so as you can see if your own relationship may need some work.
The first thing is control, which can be two sided. When either of the partners is controlling, it will eventually push away the other, no matter how great the relationship may be otherwise. Women particularly enjoy their independence, so relax your grip on her every once in a while. However women will need some occasional space; you just don’t need to be there breathing down her neck all the time. For example, a night out with the girls to spend hours drinking flirtinis and margaritas chatting about things you probably don’t care about. There may be no logic to it, but these outings are necessary for the woman to relax.
The next cause is jealousy. There is nothing more likely to spoil a relationship quicker than a jealous man tracking his girlfriend to always know where she is and what she is doing. Jealousy is a very serious issue which must be controlled. A woman’s love will fade with bursts of jealousy. When you let jealousy rear it’s head, you are doubting her love and her fidelity. When the man slips and lets outbursts of jealousy come out, he is eroding the relationship.
The next thing is that women do not want a wussy man in their lives. The woman is seeking a man that can run the show and not someone that is always looking to someone else for direction. A woman wants someone that is strong, knowing that her man can take care of her when the chips are down. So get in the habit of taking the lead and stop being so wishy-washy whenever you are making plans.
The last cause of breakups is that no one enjoys living with a bum. A woman seeks protection and needs the comfort of being secure and that her man is able to provide for her. You can’t just expect your woman to stick by your side if you don’t have any real goals or aspirations with your life. Find a passion with your life, a cause to live for, something you can get excited about and gets you out of bed in the morning. Have you ever noticed how women just seem to be inexplicably attracted to men that have a goal or a quest for themselves? A woman likes to boast about how exciting her man is and how he makes her feel. This won’t happen if you just watch TV all day.
If you can handle these four aspects of your relationship then you will have a long fruitful relationship with any woman. When you have any of the four traits above you will probably find it to be extremely challenging to find a solid and stable relationship.
If you found this article helpful and are looking for more information on what to do after you’ve been dumped, check out Why Women Dump Men, Why Relationships Fail, and Jason Hicks’ Second Chance Romance Review.
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